is there any love if theyre disrespectful?

after i gave birth to our 1st child, my husband became very disrespectful to me. he treats me very lowly, hed go down to the point of losing me, but i just cant leave at all. he calls me names, stupid, tells me to go die, my parents were cursed to have a mental child, he just always say harsh words to me like im a nobody. he never consider my feelings anymore. ive talked to him about it and he said just because he has no respect me, doesnt mean he dont love me. he says he does love me, if he doesnt, he wouldnt be married to me. also, he says he has no respect for me cause the way i do things are so annoying and stupid. i lack a lot of knowledge & i seem like im always lost at the things i do and just doing it wout paying attention. this is why he has no respect for me. he claims hes like this when hes mad, but before i had his child, he wasnt like this. we both bought a new house together, im new to lawn mowing, and snow blowing, im a person who needs a few practices to be able to master whatever im learning. because i cant get it the 1st time, he acts like im stupid.