In law drama... grab a snack

It’s a long one...

I’ve been with my husband for 11 years this September.

I thought I was close to his family. I always go out of my way to be nice, I’ve hosted them, I spoil all the kids as if they were my own. And I’ve bought them things when they were having hard times.

Now, as trivial as it may seem, and trust me I know I sound like a brat.

I am so upset. Now, I don’t usually cry so I’m going to have to blame it on the fact that I’m pregnant but I was crying like a baby because I noticed I’m not represented in their lives. (My in laws)

I am in no photos. They only have pictures of my husband and my kids. It’s like I haven’t been around these past 11 years.

And they don’t always invite my children when all the cousins go out. Recently they had trips to universal studios and they took professional photos of all the cousins and my kids weren’t invited.

I don’t think I’d be as upset as I am if they weren’t friends with my husbands ex.

She probably thinks he’s single! I would!

His family doesn’t/hasn’t acknowledged that I’m in the picture.

Here’s some back story as to why I’m hurt as well: his aunt told him not to marry me on our wedding day. She said it was for the wrong reasons...(we had already had our son)

And a couple months after that his mother, who was at our wedding and watched us say “I do”

Invited his EX (the one they’re still friends with) to move in with her AND when my husband was helping his mom move a couch she invited his EX to come over while he was there. 🤬

What should I do?

Should I call them out?

Or cut them out?