I've regain control in myself
I stood my ground, i didn't cry, i only rose my voice when i really couldn't contain myself but resumed steady, he finally listened. He was definitely at a loss of words when he noticed i wasn't backing down, he tried to keep up with my pace, i took his into perspective. I was honest with him, he had to take me into consideration, we left on a better note. Granted there's some blurs, it's definitely not as much as we started out with and i do feel better that we left it as mutual as we could. There has to be another talk on how to deal with misunderstandings and it will happen soon.. i'm just glad i didn't let him get into my head or cry the second he called or gave in when i felt frustrated. I stood my ground and was confident enough in myself that he was at a loss.
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