Okay ladies... I have never written a post on here, but I’m always reading & commenting on other people’s questions so I figured I’d try to ask y’all something!

I am absolutely TERRIBLE at taking control in bed. I am never on top, I like being on my back, & my SO does like ALL of the work. I feel awful about it because I know it probably gets boring for him. I’ve tried to be on top, but I never feel like I’m doing it right. I end up getting frustrated at myself & then it kind of ruins the moment. I get awkward, shy, embarrassed—it’s just really not a pretty sight. So I’m here to ask you girls what in the world you do when you’re taking control in bed?? I really want to be able to please my SO, but I’m just really not confident. SOS