Need some mood boosters

Ki

Hi everyone, so basically...this is my first pregnancy. I’m 9 weeks 3 days...and I’ve been stressing myself out. It just baffles me that the baby’s heart can stop at any point, and I wouldn’t have a clue. I’m just worried. I have a blood draw next Tuesday, and we were planning on mailing out announcements that day. I’m hoping we could ask the nurse if everything’s ok, or if we could possibly listen to the heartbeat...but I’m worried they’ll say no. I’m basically worried that we’ll mail all these out, then find out I miscarried in 2 weeks. I was thinking about waiting until that appointment, but we have a bday party and a bachelorette party that week, so we wanted all our friends to know beforehand. I know I’m over thinking this 😩 just needed to tell someone that understands