Sexuality question

Hey everyone I have a question, after thinking about my sexuality for a while I wondered if because I feel more compelled to do some things than others, does that determine my sexual orientarion or do I need to rely on my bodily responses to determine my sexual orientation? I've put some examples so it's a long read but I'd love some opinions! Lemme know if I've seriously overthought this too, y'know this girl loves to overthink