NO SEXUAL CONTACT!

So my man and I have had a rough couple years but after I had my son back in 2016 it started to get better I was currently on my weight loss journey to get back to my pre pregnancy weight at least ! I had lost 20lbs and and had 50lbs to go but we were starting to get our sauce back 😉 We are very sexual people fifty shades of grey I may say... but then we found out I was pregnant with our second child a month ago delaying my weight loss by docs orders ... and there goes our sex life again. He claims it’s not the weight I’ve gained but that he hasn’t accomplished the goals he wanted to before baby #2 was conceived.. I mean I understand that but I can’t help but think he has something to do with my weight as well.