I am currently going through my 3rd pregnancy loss in 4 months (all around 5 1/2 weeks.) Of course, I had to get excited and told some people I was pregnant. Anyway, now even my not particularly religious friends keep saying things like "it'll happen soon when it's meant to." meant too?! by who?! This is cruddy and isn't dictated by fate or destiny or something. Also, am I not allowed to grieve the loss of hopes and dreams I had for this potential child without having investment in it being one of God's children, ect.... Sorry for the rant. Really frustrated and most of my support system is not helping.