Orgasms

Last night I was hooking up with a guy that I’ve been talking to, and while we were having sex he asked me if I had come yet. I told him no because I hadn’t yet and then I realized that I’ve never had an orgasm, regardless if I was by myself or with a guy. I still enjoy having sex and think it feels amazing, and every other guy I’ve been with has never asked my if I came or not. I don’t know what I should do in this situation the next time we hook up because I’ve never cared about not orgasming before, but he genuinely felt bad that he couldn’t get me too. I told him that I really didn’t mind (I guess I don’t care because I’ve never experienced an orgasm and don’t know what I’m missing out on 😂) but what about the next time we’re together? I don’t want him to feel like he has to keep going down on me to get me there because it’s most likely not going to happen.