Vaginal pain/spotting

Hey guys ! My periods are pretty regular and my last period was March 29th to the 2nd , and my next period is in 10 days .

I was spending Friday-Monday wuth my boyfriend at an Airbnb house. We had sex the Friday night and the next day I noticed some spotting . I also was freaking out because it actually stained my pants and I needed to go get some pads but the weather was horrible (if you live in Toronto) you know what am talking about. I used napkins through the night . Anyways I usually spot after I have sex like all the time but this time it was a lot . I could tell it was not my period as I get cramps by the second day and it just didn’t feel like it . Today it is this dark brown to black so it’s almost done . My period usually last 3-5 days. We didn’t continue to have sex which sucked cause we don’t have sex often due to the distance.

I went to check it out and my doctor referred me to a gyno. I also been experiencing shocking vagina pain since I was in highschool which happens so randomly. It’s a really emotional thing for me to talk about because I’ve experience this for so long with no answers . I am turning 21 now .

I hope I get answers from the gyno ! .

I don’t think it’s possible for me to be pregnant because timing is weird . Plus we used condom and he pulled it. He is super worried that I am pregnant as he thinks it is implantation bleeding and wants me to take a pregnancy test but I said that’s too early. After my last period we didn’t have sex until now as well.

I honestly think he keeps messing up my cervix 🤷🏽‍♀️ my boyfriend is average but sometimes is really rough with me. I find it so weird because he was gentle and I was bleeding a lot .

What you guys think 🤔

Does anyone else feel like pain or is it just me ?

Is it normal to spot after you have sex each time ?