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If you haven't already, you should maybe ask him at a time when you're not being intimate. I lost about 70 lb prior to meeting my SO after my divorce and I felt and looked better than I had and quite a few years. I was the opposite though at first I didn't want him to look at my naked body at all. He didn't really make it easy for me to be insecure which I am thankful for, otherwise I may have kept my shirt on and the lights off for the rest of our lives lol Anyway, even though I was insecure at first, I would have been annoyed if he didn't want to look at my body. I would probably be feeling exactly the way you feel now. The best advice I can give you is to try to get a real, honest answer out of him. Maybe he doesn't look because he's afraid he'll cum too fast, but that wouldn't really explain why he doesn't look when you're in the bath. Maybe he's insecure. Who knows. You worked hard for your body, don't let him make you ashamed of it ❤️
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I lost about 60 pounds before I got with my boyfriend and am very self conscious of the way I look, I'm 5'4 and weigh 115 pounds. My boyfriend wants my shirt and everything else off for sex but he won't look at my naked body, like never, I made it a point to watch where he looks. When we last had sex he told me to take my shirt off and I said "why, you don't look at me" and he said "yeah, but I get to feel you and grab you." On a separate occasion, I had asked him when the last time he watched porn was and he said last time I took a bath and he just scrolled threw the pictures....like I'm fine with him watching porn but I was literally in the next room in the bath fully naked. He didn't get why I was very confused as to why he didn't just come in to look at me or touch me. He comes in when I take a bath to talk and stuff but he makes eye contact and will not look at my body. I even told him that he never looks at me when I'm naked.
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