Wrong to feel okay?

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I found out today there is no heartbeat and no growth. I'm currently considering miscarriage options. I was pretty weepy at the doctors but I feel almost hopeful now, I feel calmer and it's almost okay. Anyone feel the same? I feel almost guilty like I thought I'd be a mess, crying the rest of the day...but I'm not. Does it change when you go through the actual miscarriage? I'm leaning towards natural if I can :/

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I agree 100% with Sam. btw I'm sorry for your loss.

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There is nothing wrong with how you’re feeling! You may go back and forth between emotions. Grief is a strange roller coaster.

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I don’t think there’s a right or wrong feeling, miscarriages are so personal that you kind of just feel things in your own way, so don’t feel guilty about how you’re feeling! I’ve had two miscarriages, both discovered through an ultrasound where no heartbeat was detected. For myself, I found that things usually were harder once I was going through the miscarriage and then afterwards when you’re back to square one. I’m so sorry for your loss! Your emotions may go up and down throughout the process, but never feel guilty about what you’re feeling and grieve in your own way and own time. Best wishes to you!

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I was like that at first. The day I found out I was wreck. The next day I started to accept it and felt alright. Then I had a d&c; done, since then my emtions have gone back and forth. Everyone is different and has every right to feel whatever way the feel.

Wrong to feel okay?

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