Ladies so I have a situation and need all the advice I can get 🙏🏽

My man and I live share an apartment with one of his friends. This friend call him Dave, he lived here before I moved in. Dave has a wife and a child back in Mexico whom he talks to on a daily basis and sends money to and also talks about how much he misses them a lot.

The apartment is a two bedroom so he is in one room and we’re in the other. He pays rent plus his share in groceries and bills.

So recently Dave has been sneaking in girls inside the apartment at night. Our rooms are in front of each other so I can clearly hear the footsteps and the door opening and closing. When he thinks I’m asleep already I hear him go outside and bring the girl in and the girl already knows not to make noise. They do their business and she leaves.

This is where my issue is, i find extremely wrong what he is doing. He talks so much about his wife and child but then goes and messes around with other women. I don’t know his wife and have no contact with her. I’ve talked to my

Man about telling him to stop or to move out but my man tells me he has a right because he pays rent for his room and that it isn’t my business what he does or doesn’t do. But I find it disrespectful not only to me but to my home, I’m about to welcome a babygirl in a matter of days and I really wanted a nursery for her but didn’t get one because my man felt bad kicking him out since Dave is suppose to leave back to Mexico in December and is saving money but he said that this past December and he is still here. And every time I bring it up to my

Man we argue or he ends up just ignoring my

Comment. So what can I do? Do I go just ignore it ? Or should I keep trying to do something?

UPDATE:

so today in the morning once my man woke up for work I told him calmly that I was done with his friends actions and he asked me what actions and I told him about the sneaking in girls that It was going on while we were home not just when he is alone in the apartment. And mentioned to him that i don’t want to feel restricted with staying in my room at night when the baby comes because his friend has his needs. I told him to talk to him and tell him to stop or to move out. And I also told him I know he’s suppose to leave in December but I don’t believe that and that my baby needs her nursery and we need our own space as well. He stayed completely quiet but when he left he told

Me not to worry and that he’ll talk to him hopefully this time he actually does talk to

Him and not just blows me off. I’ll keep you ladies updated ! Thank you for all our advice is helped me a lot on calming down my anger