So, I am pregnant with my third child. I had a baby shower for my first in 2005. My first daughter passed away at 5 months old. In 2007 I became pregnant with my second daughter, I did not have a baby shower. I am now 5 wks pregnant with my 3rd baby ( my husbands 1st!). I really want to have a baby shower.... but my oldest sister said that is selfish of me....I dont know....Its the first time I planned my pregnancy and with a man I love heart and soul and would love to celebrate it with him and his family. It has also been 10 years and I have absolutely no baby stuff. Is it ok for me to have a baby shower?