Do I have a right to be upset

Soooo I’ll try to explain as best I can. There was a viral video going around on fb of a girl engaging in sexual activity. Well my so messaged someone asking for the video (no big deal I mean I wanted to see it too to see what all the hype was about) the person sent him the videos and he proceeded to ask for her personal info so he could look the girl in the video up (she is a stripper and lives in the local area). He said he wanted to “pipe her” meaning he wanted to fuck her. He said he wanted the next round. Just a bunch of bullshit that was uncalled for and it pissed me off. Especially since the person he was saying all this to is one of my ex friends, it’s a female, and they’re not even friends!! So wtf! I could understand if he went and said all this to his guy friend because you know guys talk but to say it to my ex friend! It’s embarrassing.