Painful sex after baby?

I gave birth on 01/12/2018. I had a episiotomy. This was my second baby and I also had an episiotomy with my first. I remember with my first it was uncomfortable when my husband and I start being intimate but not significantly. We tried sex around the 7 week mark both times. My first baby was smaller 6lbs and this baby was 8lbs. But here I am 14 weeks postpartum and sex is still very painful. Tampons are even out of the question. Is this normal? Has anyone else experienced this?