Miscarriage Venting

Long read:

my husband and I got pregnant November 2017. He didn’t want me to tell ANYONE until we hit the first ultrasound. I obviously couldn’t keep that secret so I told my mom & brother and 1 of my best friends. I honestly didn’t know the %of miscarriage was so high. Anywho we changed our minds and decided to tel his family at 5 weeks 6 days. And the rest of my family at the next day at 6 weeks. I decided that if anything happened I would want the people who knew there as support. Well karma or what but I started bleeding the night I told everyone. Later on that week I lost my peanut.

To this day, 4 months later, no one checks on me. No one asks me how I’m doing. No one asks if I’m handling the aftermath. My husband is there for me but he doesn’t truly understand how hard I’m taking the loss. I still cry randomly, it’s not daily but probably weekly. We are ttc for our rainbow but he just says it will happen.

Why do we have to suffer in silence. The people I thought would be there for me cared for the moment they found out but are scared to say anything to me ever since. I love my family and they are always there for me, but why does everyone forget after the initial loss. We’re constantly grieving after a loss and we deal with it alone. With some help from these ladies on here going through the same.

I hope all of you find support and comfort. And sorry that you’ve had to go through a loss 💖❤️🧡💛💚💙💜