Should I wait till he ask me to be his girlfriend?

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Well iv been going out with this guy since feb..bt were nt in a relationship. We act as if we are n we have had sex. I have a good time with him..n we enjoy each others company outside of just having sex. Bt the thing is he hasnt asked to be with me..n i dnt understand. He says its bec he gt out of a long relationship and that he'll ask me soon. I understand that...bt if he doesnt want a relatilnship...why does he act like were in one?

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He probably doesn’t want to commit because he’s already getting what he wants. Don’t sleep with him until he decides that he wants an actual relationship with you.

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That's a lame excuse...if he didn't want a relationship and he's so hung up on just getting out of one,  he'd stick to himself and not sleep with you. It's an excuse to not be committed but still get his dick wet.  I wish women would stop letting men use them to fulfill that need,  as if that's our only purpose.

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Well I think you should ask him because he is weighing his options and if he acting as if you guys are in a relationship you should be. He could be waiting for someone else and entertaining you in the process. Don’t miss out on a blessing waiting on him

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And don’t give him “boo privileges” if he is not committed to you. Set boundaries and keep it that way until he asks to be in an exclusive relationship with you.

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He wants to be able to take the easy way out if he loses interest in you. And since he’s getting everything that comes with a relationship without having to commit he’s probably not going to until he’s done having doubts about you guys or until he decides no other girl is better

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so is he dating other people, and having sex with them too??????

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....because men love to reap the benefits of being in a relationship but not commit. Basically he wants to spend time with you and have sex with you but he doesn’t want to have to just be with you. He likes his freedom to date whomever he comes across and if he’s not committing to you, I suspect he’s waiting for a better option to come along (not saying you aren’t a great person but he’s just fboy).

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i suggest you keep your options open. don't just focus on him if he doesn't want a relationship. yall still both technically single, unless yall want to be fwb exclusive?

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He doesn’t want to be in a relationship. At least not now? If he did he would ask I’m sure.

Should I wait till he ask me to be his girlfriend?

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