No sex?

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Is anyone else out there pregnant and does NOT want to have sex? I feel terrible but my husband and I have only had sex 2 times since I got pregnant (14 weeks!) it’s been nothing but symptoms since I got pregnant and I feel bad that I don’t want to have sex😩😩😩

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I’m 13 weeks and have him some awful (on my part) sympathy sex around week 10.  I don’t want anything to do with intimacy- no cuddling, kissing, touching, nada.  
I feel bad because I’m sure it’s hard on him and he thinks something is wrong, but really my body is going through so many changes, I don’t feel sexy, and I’m just trying to get used to my own new self.

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I was like that at the beginning. I was so sick-throwing up every day, I couldn’t keep anything down. I tried giving my husband oral and it made me gag and then throw up. Once I got to the second trimester it got better and I’d want sex ALL THE TIME but I still couldn’t handle oral. Fast forward to the third trimester and we only have sex once a week. It’s not even something that crosses my mind. I’ve gotten to the point where I am so big and uncomfortable that I don’t want to be touched. My husbands gone months without regular sex or even oral and I felt so bad at first but then I was like, I’m growing his son and there’s no reason for me to feel bad because I’m sick or I’m uncomfortable or I’m too tired to have sex or please him.

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Same here. We’ve only had sex once since I conceived and that was last month lol idk between symptoms, worrying it will affect something, & and low libido I do not want it. 🤷🏻‍♀️

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I am feeling the same way girl. I’m 17 weeks and my husband and I have had sex maybe 4 times. And even then I have to almost force myself to want to. 
With my previous pregnancies my sex drive came back around 20-24 weeks. 
So hopefully that’s the case

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I was like that in my 1st trimester. I didn’t even want to be touched, but around 16 weeks I got a bit more comfortable and now at 26 weeks I feel like I could go three times a day if this belly wasn’t to big lol.

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Two pregnancies under my belt and both times my sex drive vanished. My husband has been wonderfully patient and understanding about it, though!

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Definitely feel you! I’m a high risk pregnancy in week five and the ob warned me I might have spotting if we did because of higher cervical vascularity. I haven’t had that anxiety yet and I don’t want it! Plus I’m on a ton of vaginal meds for at least another five weeks, so I just feel gross. I’ve heard second trimester sex can be great though!

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with my first I had such bad morning sickness(I was sick till 3 weeks before he was born) I couldn't we tried once when  I was 6 months but it was painful so we didn't do it again till after I had my son

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The first 4 months of my pregnancy we really didn’t have a lot of sex because I was so sick for so long. he never felt on me or mad me feel bad about it. But ever since the middle of the 5th month we’ve been going at it! I’m 36 weeks now and we have sex as much as we can when he’s not at work😂 we’ve had to get creative because my belly is just so big now though🙄

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First trimester is always like that. Second is better, third can be uncomfortable but doable.

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