So I work at a small town bar where everyone knows everyone pretty much.

So it was my managers wedding and I was left in charge for the most part. After the wedding a ton of people came back to the bar to continue to drink, I was taking care of this gentleman who thought it was okay to not only touch me but grab my butt not just once but just about three times. By the third time I made sure that he didn’t reach me and pushed his hand away. But I keep getting the feeling like I should have done more, I should have kicked him out, I shouldn’t have worn a tank top and leggings. I feel at fault, but in my heart I know I am not.

There really isn’t much that I can do to make sure that he doesn’t come back into the bar, because he is best friends with the owner. And all the owner would say is well I will talk to him and nothing would get done. Even my older coworkers said the same thing. So I wrote a letter of resignation and am turning it in.

But why do I still feel like I am the person in the wrong?