abusive ex.

Hello ladies! Need something to get off my chest. as the title suggests, my ex was the best example of what abuse means. physical, psychological, emotional everything . I don't wanna dig into the past, but briefly saying, the breakup and the aftermath was quite hell. His ego was hurt that I dumped him and I earned a job for myself and started being happy and independent. He made sure no one would date me. suffered for 5 years and then I found the right guy who stood by me through thick and thin. we got married 5 years ago and have a kid together now. all is happy. when he found out I got married he had the audacity to meet my husband in person and warn him to leave me. cops being called, charges were filed, and then restraining order. Didn't hear from him after that. Recently came to know from mutual friends that he got married. I thought I would be pissed at him but surprisingly I am happy for him. I just hope he is a better person now, will treat that girl with respect and love. Whew! that's all!