idk how much more i can take ! its been a while need opinions

so i need to rant and im tired of getting the same feedback from my friend i need more opinions ! so im married and the 22nd was our 2 yr wedding anniversary ok i got my sos a card and we 2gether decided 2 go to a zoo with friends the day b4 so i figured my sos had something up his sleeve for the actual day of our anniversary well the night b4 our anniversary the day we went to the zoo he invited our friends to go which i didnt say anything i just went along with it but that night he also invites them to stay and drink with us and i was like ohh yeah hes got something planned well little did i know i would be baby sitting my sos and my bff bec both were drunk and my sos decides to pass out in the floor and vomits and pisses so i had to clean him up and get him off the floor and put him in bed and im a cna so i literlly felt like i was at work and i had to make my friend go to sleep i didnt get to sleep until 5 something in the morning !! and by time i fell asleep my sos wakes up and wakes me up and needless to say hes not gotten me anything or nothing after all i do for him i never get gifts and the fact i took care of him when he was passd out drunk on the night b4 our 2 Year wedding anniversary and he dont even get me a card and the morning of when he woke up so early it was to tell our frinds bye and eat bfast and he went right back down i havent said nothing to him bec im just so fed up i try so hard to please ppl and i do all i can as a wife but yet im always the one to get the short end of the stivk i just dk what 2 do anymore and i even took off for his bday which is the 25th just so i could spend time with him and and the fact he can't even spend time with me 2day bec he wants to sleep all day even after i worked and he cant spend 5 mins with me nor have i yet gotten a real "happy anniversary " i was being sarcastic yesterday on our anniversary and said oh "happy anniversary " and he said "you too hun" and thats all i got ... like idk anymore how to feel