MOH 9 days post due date...

Hey ladies I am a MOH in a wedding 9 days post due date... the bride is understanding that I may not be able to preform full duties but I am doing a tremendous amount of prep for her as she lives over 24 hour drive away. That being said I am wondering if anyone has tips for dresses... it’s stressful and she has not had a wee one so it’s difficult for her to understand what it’s going to be like for me. She really wants these tight lace dresses and it’s not going to happen I’m aware of that might... HELP PLEASE!!!