Cervix behind baby’s head?

Da

Second pregnancy.

38+4 today and got my cervix checked for the first time and I’ve never had an exam that hurt SO BAD IN MY LIFE.

I had to ask my OB to stop, so we couldn’t finish the exam.

But she said the baby’s head is in front of the cervix but everything is “soft”.

Second time Mom here and I wasn’t dilated or effaced or anything up until I delivered my first at 40+6.

What does this even mean?