help!! what should i do?!

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okay so i’m 15 (freshman) and there’s this guy i really like (he just turned 17 and he’s a junior), i’ve known him since the beginning of the school year and we had a class together for half of the school year and he left the class after first semester and i have a streak with him on snap and i’ll sent cute photos here and then, and he hit me up during spring break asking to hangout so i hung out with him over spring break and i thought he just wanted to talk and drive me around but we ended up stopping at the park, we made out for a bit and he took me to the back seat and he fingered me and i gave him a bj, then he took me home and over the next two weeks he had only texted me like 3 times but it was little talk then we hung out last weekend and the same thing happened but i choked when he came bc he pushed my head down (is that bad?!?!) ,anyways i can’t tell if he is using me but like when we hangout we talk before and i feel like we clicked but i have a huge feeling he’s using me :/

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Yeah he’s using you, you gotta stop before you get too attached and also he’ll be surprised that you stopped and that shits the best

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he's using you babygirl, ditch him. that's not okay.

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I would say go with your instincts. You have a clearer feel for the situation than what we could get from an overview as an outsider, and I think from what you’re saying you already have an idea of what his feelings are. But communication is still crucially important. You should honestly let him know what you’re looking for, and let his response guide what you feel you should do. 
I know that sounds impossible and scary, especially at your age (trust me it’s still scary in your late twenties but gets easier with practice), but it’s the best way to get a clear answer. Good luck!

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I’m sorry but I think he’s just using you. He’s a junior and all they want with a freshman is sex. I’m so sorry your in this situation but you just gotta leave him behind.

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ditch him. he def using u. not worth the hurt you will feel in the end. jm sure he working his way to having full intercourse with you. also shame on him for pushing ur head down. i wouldve punched him.

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Definitely using you! Don't ever let a boy treat u like that.

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For the past month I have been going through the pretty much same exact thing, except I haven’t gone as far as you have (I haven’t blown him 🤭.)  He’s a junior (17) I’m a sophomore (15) he hit me up and I was all for it cause he’s very attractive, we get a streak, he keeps flirting, eventually we hung out and we made out in the back of his car.  It’s quiet for awhile, we noticeably don’t flirt as much, but then he hits me up again saying “When’s the next hook up.”  He comes over to my house and wow no surprise! There are some fingers in my shorts!  But now it’s back to the same thing where we snap for streaks and say nothing to each other.  The conclusion I have come to is the same as everyone else has said for you, “he’s using me.”  But I have had fun when we’ve hooked up, so if we continue with it I’m all down, so I wouldn’t really consider me being used 100%.  Like if I get something out of it, why not continue with it?  The biggest fear I have is catching feelings for this guy.  And that would be my biggest advice to you.  If your enjoying what you’re doing, then do what you want; but be careful as you don’t want to become attached.  I feel like I just wrote a shit ton about me trying to help but like idk.  Hope this can assist you, youre not alone with the upperclassmen predator issue.

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Sucks to say he’s using you, but he is.. I had way too many experiences like that in high school, it’s very hurtful. Ditch him before he decides he’s “done” with you. Even if it hurts and you like him, it looks better on you to leave! I promise you’ll meet guys later on who will want so much more of you than sex!! 💕

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I understand that feeling... I hate to say that he’s using you but from what it sounds like he is. Sorry sweetie 😕💕

help!! what should i do?!

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