Vagine is not the same!?

My husband and laughed so hard when a girl on the bachelor said her vagine was platinum, and I was like umm not mine my vagine is patine (pateen— like as in the word for aged looking brass!) haha! After one baby I feel like it’s normal but has anyone held a mirror down there. It’s been a year since my delivery and just looked tonight and it’s scary! Man! Not the same! I don’t even know what kind of alien like thing to compare my insides to or the parts you can see by just holding a mirror down there. Do some vaginas bounce back to normal or are we all changed for life after a vag delivery?