After having a miscarriage...

After having a miscarriage how long did you wait to start trying again. Also I had to have an emergency D&C; I passed the baby by myself, but they couldn’t get the bleeding to stop... they said the cause of my miscarriage was abnormalities of the fetus and my body rejected it. This is my first miscarriage and I honestly think it was worse than labor. I’ve have two healthy babies naturally and this was by far the worst pain I’ve ever encountered! Just looking for opinions?