What's the rudest thing someone said to you while TTC under 20?

Question

For me my mom said, "So you're just giving up then?" in reference to my college education. What's the rudest thing someone said to you when they found out you were TTC (or pregnant)?

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“Your just trying to trap him into marring you. Y’all already have one baby you don’t need another one for a long time. Your being selfish.” This was said to me by my so called best friend.

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Thankfully no one send anything to me, but sadly I know they were talking shit behind my back. I was 17 when I had my son. But my oldest brother he was raised super strict my mom left him in Hawaii with my grandma in his high school years, and he would always make snarky comments if someone was talking about the grandkids he'd be like"yeah and (my name) is just a baby too" I knew I was young but I was already uncomfortable being pregnant so young even though I could never abort, just hearing it from other people would instantly make me cry. I'm about to be 20 and ttc#2 now that I'm a couple years older I think I will feel confident and happy and won't have to hide from my family when I get pregnant.

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Got told that 17 (18 in August & graduated high school early) it too young to try & that I was an idiot for wanting to ruin my life & my fiancé’s.

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your manipulating him to get a baby, you cant care for a baby , your a child your self, this is what people say to me im on the 9th month trying to conceive and people dont realize that im very sad that i try everything and i wont happen

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I just kept getting told I was just going to live off the government and I was a complete idiot. 
But honestly? I’m really glad I stopped trying when I was 18. My ‘fiancé’ I was suppose to marry ended up admitting to cheating on me the full three years we were together a month before our wedding. Wasted three years and 3,400$ in a dress I’ll never wear. 
I’m 20 now, 14 weeks with my first baby, and stable with a man I’m glad I waited to meet when I was older.

What's the rudest thing someone said to you while TTC under 20?

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