Might not be able to conceive

We've been TTC since September with no luck, we have one child already but within the last year we've both really wanted to have a baby girl. (our first child is mine from a previous relationship, my husband adopted him)

We found out about a month ago my husband has extremely low testosterone levels and his doctor put him on replacement shots. Well after some research we found that the shots can actually decrease sperm count 🙁

When we first found out we talked about consulting his doctor with our fertility concerns... Unfortunately when it came time for his next appointment, and to start the shots, I wasnt able to go with him because of work.

Afterwards I called my husband to ask how it went and he said he "forgot" to ask, he might have but I think it honestly scares him that "he could be the problem". Hes also felt like less of a man lately because of E.D (which was why he went to the doctor to begin with) and now his low T levels.

So im not goint to push him into talking with his doctor.If he decides to thats great, if not so long as he is healthy I dont care. I couldnt live with myself if he looked at himself as a "problem" and "not a real man."

If we have another child, yay!!

If not, that means we only have to put one through college, we can take a lot more trips, and have more adventures, so yay!