Do I breakup with him or not?

I’m fairly split on if I want to break up on my boyfriend for various reasons because I don’t know if we are just going through a rough patch.

So lately I have been getting fairly upset that my boyfriend hasn’t been good about hanging out when we plan on it. We end up hanging but he’s like 30minutes to 2 hours after I expected. Also I am the only one to ask to hang out. Partially I know I like planning ahead and asking like a few days a head but he would ask last minute but that’s when I would say I’m sick of being the one to plan everything.

He and I have been dating on and off (just a little bit) for the last three years. He and I haven’t had verbal fights but when we do disagree we talk it out calmly which I really do love so much about him. He and I get along really well and I love that he and I can have deep discussions and he challenges my thinking.

At the same time we aren’t good about going out on dates and I’ve told him I want more of that. His behavior changes right after I talk about being upset but then he goes back to kinda being clueless.

Now finally he and I are both coming up on our finals at college. I know he is super stressed because he hasn’t been good about planning ahead this semester with projects so we won’t be able to hang out till after finals. I’m just a little upset overall how unorganized he is. So if I do decide to end it I will wait till we are done and on summer break. But I’m also wondering if it’s just a bad patch and I need to suck it up and chill. I don’t want to lose his friendship but I also want to be valued in a relationship.

Arg. Help😳