Should I be upset?

Question

Let me ask this, my boyfriend and I have been together for 2 yrs and I recently found out I was pregnant. I have a 2 yr old from a previous relationship and he has a 3 yr old. When I found out I was pregnant we were so excited and he admittedly told my 2 yr old who completely understands because she is so advanced. His daughter came over today and he was suppose to tell her BUT he told me he isn't until "he feels comfortable telling her." This is the 1st time he has seen her in 3 mths. He doesn't see her consistently. Sound I be upset? Because to be honest I AM!! I need truthful feed back and please do not be rude!!
Just adding that this baby was planned not an accident. We tried for 8 mths and it finally happened. The day I found out he called his daughter who he doesn't talk to regularly just to say I love you. I think he now feels bad?

Answer

Not really something to be upset about. He doesn't have the relationship with his child the way he does with your daughter. You said he hasnt seen her in 3 months. Thats a long time. Let him establish a deeper relationship with his child. Maybe he does not want her to feel like she's being replaced. That happened with my husband. He has a daughter (who was 5 when we had my son) we waited to tell herwe were pregnant because we didn't want her to feel  as if she didn't matter to him any more. Have patience. When he's ready, he'll tell her. It's not like she won't know when the baby arrives.

Answer

Why does he feel uncomfortable?

Should I be upset?

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