Trying for a year...

My anniversary was yesterday the 28th exciting but also marked our year of trying with no success. I've had some issues with my cycle getting off track but seems to be leveling back out over the last 4 months. Just started using opks again this month (tried them for awhile but they stressed me out to much) now I'm in a position in life where I'm not trying so hard using every method possible to track and it just is whatever it is. Tips for a new stress free year of trying are greatly appreciated and any success stories are welcome!