real friends please

soy husband's friends live next door we have a few other friends who live nearby as well but everyone is so immature! We have two 19 yr olds a 23 and a 24 and they don't drive but they ask for rides and don't offer gas money they have crappy jobs ( grocery isn't bad but try and have a life. they don't try and get better jobs ) I'm sick of giving rides and loaning money I don't get back. my husband is fixing and giving away a car to one if they get their license....they schedule the test and just don't go. my husband and I r just married I'm 19 he is 20. just wish we had friends that acted like adults....