Hey ladys,

I need vent/rant get all this out of my system ya hear me?

I met this guy on tinder last October. We went out a few times, talked all the time, and decided to make it official in mid January. He has a history of depression and very cautious of boundaries so I wanted to make sure that dating was something he wanted to do. Things were going pretty well until about two weeks ago when he started to get more distant and conversations were short. No 😘 in messages, going hours without opening messages, no good morning messages, etc. He said he had just been thinking a lot lately. I kept thinking I was being to clingy to I tried to back off the messages too. I had been trying to support him and had a big speech planned for the next day when I would see him. Well he doesn’t say when he’s coming over he sends me a text “why me?” And the song hopes up. I try texting him and calling him no reply. An hour later he says he’s been avoiding conversations that he needs to have. He says he just woke up and didn’t have feelings for me anymore. We weren’t dating that long but the thing that bothers me the most is his reason it just feels like he’s giving up. He said it’s not that he doesn’t have any feelings towards me but not enough to continue dating.

Anybody out there with break ups that hit you harder than you thought they would?