For the past year I’ve been feeling distant with my best friend. Almost every time I talk to her I feel annoyed and don’t even want to be around her anymore. There isn’t a single thing she’s done to make me feel this way but I think a lot of small things have really started to get to me.

I feel like everyone has to cater to her. All her friends have to go to her and be around her family if we want to hangout but she will very rarely come to my house or do anything with my family. She will come up with any excuse not to come to me.

And i feel like I might get a little hate for this but I’ll just put it out there that we weight the same and are the same size pretty much. But she has gotten so lazy and to the point where she can’t hardly do anything anymore. Like I said I’m the same weight as her but i live a way more active life than her. She can barely leave her house anymore. I always invite her to go on walks with our other friends or to parks and stuff but she won’t come because she can barely walk. It’s just frustrating to me because I work a full time job where I’m on my feet and walking the entire day and still do other active stuff outside of work but she wants me to feel sorry for her because she won’t leave her house.

So we haven’t hungout in a while and I really don’t even want to but I try to pretend I do. Like today we were texting and talking about making plans but I won’t commit to anything because I don’t want to hangout with her even. I feel bad about it but when I’m around her I just get irritated. She is so self centered and wants everyone’s pity.