Leaving everything behind?

So me and my boyfriend moved in together about 3 months ago and since then it’s been a rollercoaster. We moved to a whole new city two hours away. He’s been emotionally abusive but has apologized. Sometimes he will slip up but I do believe he is trying and he sees there’s a problem. Lately though I miss my parents and my home so bad and just recently an opportunity has presented itself to me. I could have a 4 bed 2 bathroom house for a very good price back home with my parents. Should I leave and take the opportunity or should I stick it out here. I know you guys don’t know everything and obviously this is a decision I have to make myself but I would appreciate some opinions!

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Ka

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Good home. I did this once. Set a boundary. If I didn’t get a certain kind of progress in 6 months I moved home. It still took a whole year to get over the relationship. I actually cried today. But coming home was the best choice. Idk how much worse off I’d be if I stayed. And those stomach feelings go away the further you get from him. Go home my love and hug your parents and cry to them and apologize for just not trusting their judgment and thank them for allowing you to be independent yet come back home

Le

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Uhhhh LEAVE lol like in a heartbeat! Doesn't mean you have to break up, you can still visit each other.

Le

Le • May 2, 2018
If he does then it wasn't meant to be. If he truly cared about you, he would understand

Ki

Kim • May 2, 2018
Honestly though, you just said he is emotionally abusive so maybe this is a sign you need to get away from him? But if y’all wanna make it work, y’all can make it work. You shouldn’t let the chance pass you by!! 😊

c

c • May 2, 2018
I know I’m really leaning towards it. It’s just such a great opportunity I may not get again. I’m afraid he’ll break up with me if I leave though