No Sex Life

It’s been almost a month since we’ve last had sex. We’re both under a lot of stress and for me personally sex relieves a lot of tension. Masturbating only goes so far for me personally.. I’ve mentioned it, hinted at it, blatantly talked about it and nothing. NOTHING. I guess I just needed to express my frustration. It sucks going from a couple times a week at least to no sex at all. Anyone else experience times like these in a long relationship?