Stuck between ...

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I’m stuck between leaving and being happy or staying and making it work. I know relationships are hard. I know they take work and nothing good comes easy. I feel beat down and broken. We fight all the time and I honestly feel like I just let him dictate and I follow his rules. They constantly change and even when I think I’m doing something right. I’m doing something wrong. I moved away from my family to be with him and so many people have said to leave... it would be so hard though. Idk what I want. I just want to be my happy confident self again .... opinions?