People keep telling me this. It doesn't work that way, so stop saying that the secret to conceiving is to stop TTC. Just because it worked for you, it doesn't mean it will work for someone else. It is very discouraging when you stop TTC for so many months and it still doesn't happen, then someone tells you "just stop it and it will happen". It won't happen! It will happen when it is time to happen. So, please, just stop telling those of us TTC to stop it. It does not work like that! Thank you!