Reignite the Spark

So me and my fiancé have been together 5 years and TTC for nearly 4 years. The first year our sex life was insane like all we did was have sex and he would literally last for 2 hours and then dive straight back in! In total we sometimes had sex for 4/6hours or if shorter 4 times a day! We would orgasm so much and change the sheets 5 times haha 😂 anyways the 2nd year it was still fireworks in the bedroom but a little less time consuming.. ideally this is were I want to go back to!

Now I literally cannot remember the last time I had an orgasm! TTC took a tool on our sex life but we’ve let go of all that timing crap and just have sex now because we want to which is much better but he literally finishes in 5/10mins every time! Sometimes I barely get anything whilst others I will get close to reaching the start of an orgasm right as he cums. Like I don’t know what to do anymore I’ve tried telling him and a lot of the time he tries to get me off through oral first but even that he rushes through, I tell him to slow down but he never listens whilst in the moment and then gets too turned on that he needs to get inside. I’m okay with that but then he gets so excited he finishes in 5 mins 😩

What can I do?! I don’t mind quickies but I feel like my sex drive has disappeared now due to never getting the satisfaction I need.