having trouble deciding when to tell people

Erin

hi ladies. for those who have older children, when do you plan on telling them? i will be 8 weeks tomorrow, and have my 1st appt thurs. i was thinking anout telling my parents then, but i dont want to tell my kids until after the genetic testing and 12 week scan. my 7 yr old will be excited and i couldnt handle having to tell him if something happened. im not sure if others know that my kids wont figure it out. What are you ladies doing?