Is it still sexual assault?

My ex boyfriend sexually assaulted me. I don’t wanna go into it but I know he did for a fact after talking to friends and knowing the legal definition. But I don’t feel like a victim? (I am not trying to disrespect anyone when I say this who has fallen victim to sexual assault). It’s not something that I think about and it doesn’t keep me up at night and I’m not afraid to be touched again. Is this still sexual assault?