My husband is very... blunt. Not everyone agrees with it, that's fine. This isn't about the way he phrased it. My feelings aren't hurt. My husband still finds me attractive.He isn't a "douche" and i'm not "losing 215 pounds" Anyway...

We were wrestling on the couch this morning, and he said, "woah, that's a lot of weight you're putting on me." I told him I wasn't fat. He responded by saying, "Ok, you're just big boned."

I think I am pretty average. Sz 6. Work out pretty much every day. I'm not small, though. My mommy pooch hasnt completely gone away. I think I am in ok shape. No? Do other people see something I do not? Am I bigger than I feel?