Why am I bleeding?

Question

My boyfriend lives in a different city and when he comes to see me we always do something sexual. Long story short we had sex 2 weeks ago and it was our first time, at the end I started bleeding a lot and it hurt my vagina when I went in the shower after. Two weeks later which is now, we’re having phone sex and when I finger myself a lot of blood comes out, it’s not my period for sure because it ended like a week ago but I’m really scared and I’m wondering if anyone has any idea to why I’m bleeding so much?

Answer

bleeding from sex is NOT common at all, even if it’s your first time. do not fool yourself into thinking “it happens all the time”. it’s not supposed to happen. sex should not make you bleed. it’s not the end of the world if you do, but it’s not supposed to happen.
did he finger you the last time you were with him? his fingers may have scratched the inside of your vagina and when you were fingering your self, you agitated the scratches he made and that’s why you bled.  < this is just my personal guess but i do think it’s smart to see a gyno :)

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you should go to a gyno just to get checked out.. always right when you begin sexual activity should you begin regular check-up

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It could be because you are not wet enough, use to happen to me all the time it scared me!

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I bled a LOT the first time I had sex. That is very common. But with fingering your self that sounds like maybe not wet enough or it's possible that you could have some lacerations in your vagina. It should heal just take I easy for a while. If you overdo it you could make the lacerations a lot worse and lose too much blood.

Why am I bleeding?

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