Really needing to find a donor as myself and my wife are both wanting to have a child soon. No close friends want to help and not wanting to buy from a cryobank either. Just want to find someone close by who would want to help us achieve our goal of being mothers. We don’t mind if the donor wants to be a part of the baby’s life so long as the child is in our sole custody and won’t be taken from us. We are not asking for financial assistance from the donor, we ask only for the sperm so we can start a family. Never thought it would be this hard to carry my own child I just want to be able to finally start my family. My heart aches when I see my nieces and nephews. I want to have my own baby. My wife and I just want to be mothers of our own child. We don’t want to adopt.