How would you feel?

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Few weeks back my husband told me to “fuck off” when we were just having a disagreement because he always has an attitude after work which sometimes lasts till next morning . Just like every other time, I came to make up and we forgot about it. His mom came over to spend time with her granddaughter (2 month old) and me. We were taking and she asked if we ever fight and I told her about the one time he really hurt my feelings. When he came home I told him that I told his mom about that one fight and we laughed about it. But when we were talking about my cousins wife (her and I are close) we goes “well your cousin got really lucky with her, I bet he never has to tell her to fuck off”. Of course my mood changed from happy to completely upset and I haven’t spoken to him since tonight. I do everything I can for this man and this just made me so upset. 🙄 . If I ever said anything like that to him, there would be hell to pay.