I feel manipulated

Maggie

Dear all, me and my SO argue about house chores and many other things. I feel I don't ger enough help and that sometimes he doesn't think I feel tired, sad and lonely. The problem is that when we argue he always wants to be right. And he's a therapist so he always manipulates things saying he said something I've never heard, I said/done something I don't remember. I'm xlnot crazy but I don't like to argue so end up saying "ok ok it must be like you've said and I don't remember". I feel sad because I don't wanna argue but he doesn't listens to me.. What can I do? Thank you for listening to me.