Reclaiming My Independence. - IDEAS WANTED.
Hey girls! So to sum it up, I’ve been pushed the edge and I’m at the point where I don’t care if my boyfriend breaks up with me or not. He’s not willing to change things in our relationship because I haven’t been happy lately, and he says that isn’t his problem. So I decided to bring up the idea that we probably aren’t good together and maybe it’s best if we separate, and BOI.
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Let me tell you. He was not happy. NOT HAPPY. Like his response to everything I said was, “I don’t know.” He kept blaming everything on me, said I was creating problems that weren’t there before, and I kind of just sat there unimpressed. It takes two to be in a relationship, and if my happiness isn’t “your” problem, then you’re fucking up somewhere because I make sure he’s happy. But when it comes to me, it’s my responsibility. To some extent, yes, but I could be visibly upset and he would just ignore it and keep talking about whatever. SO, even though I’m technically not single, I’ve already gotten into the mindset of a single lady! After a break up, what do you do to make yourself happy again? Join a club, get a haircut, anything! I just want ideas. I’m thinking of going dirty blonde after having back hair for so long.
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