Annoyed with the comments

We are having another boy this will be our second kid and everyone keeps saying things like “looks like you won’t ever get your girl” “ I wish it were a girl I wanted you to have a girl now you will be a boy mom” I am actually super excited it’s another boy I really wanted my boys close together. We want 4 kids so having another boy didn’t phase me. When I tell people I’m excited to have two boys and the next kid or the one after that Can be a girl they get even ruder with me saying things like “two kids is more than enough” “your not going to be able to handle more than two that’s a bad idea” “you won’t want anymore after you see what two is like”

The thing is we own a 5 bedroom 2 bathroom house, we own 3 vehicles two of which are paid off, we don’t get any government assistance at all not even wic, we both have decent jobs with good hours and we absolutely love being parents. We are by no means swimming in money but we are smart and have a good savings account and have over $100 in our one year olds savings account. We are doing everything right!

I don’t understand people’s nasty comments and it’s coming from not just a few people but practically everyone. We are both the oldest of four and we loved having lots of siblings what is so wrong with us wanting a large family?