My mother in law is sometimes on my good side. She does things i don’t approve or feels the need to mommy shame me. But the one thing that has stuck with me since given birth is the fact that she would always call me fat. Now at the moment i knew i wasn’t fat just was bloated a bit and swollen because i had a c-section. I could barely move around, but i had time to recover as my baby was a preemie and was in the NICU. She says she is supportive but she hasn’t been. She wasn’t supportive after birth when i needed her the most, as i was already self conscious over my scar and i had her helicoptering over me telling me what to eat and not and was constantly judging me when she had no place to. I have always lived a healthy lifestyle and i just find it offensive how someone with a bad diet is shaming me. I went back to my original weight and recently she told me i need to start dieting. I didn’t say anything as we already have problems as she hates me breastfeeding and hates how I’m raising my son.